Worst Minecraft multiplayer experience?

I've had that happen to me a few times while playing on certain servers. Griefing is why I don't much play on other servers nowadays. I play on a private server with my friend and its more fun like that because Its more of a co-op experience and you can kick people that come in and ruin stuff and you can actually get things done in peace and have fun.

 

I hate griefers. All my hard work were always been destroyed by them. I don't really like to play on a big servers. I prefer small server.

 

Me and some of my friends were working on constructing an interesting tower like building with office rooms and so on and we worked on that for like a week and it was our prized possession and it looked really awesome but then one day one guy was fooling around with a lava bucket and accidentally dropped it from the top of our building it was mostly made up of softer flammable material and it just poured down on everything and ruined it all. I just quit playing on mp servers since then

 

Worst moment happened last night, when I had some super powerful diamond items and some IO exception error on the server did some stuff, where it killed me. Lost everything. I wasn't angry. I wasn't even annoyed. I had used them for quite a long time and had their worth used many times over already. Though it does make the current game experience much harder now that I don't have anything.

 

I never had any Minecraft multiplayer experiences that were that bad. You see, I always play with my friends a lot and that just makes up for anything bad that ever happens. I think that the worst experience I had was on this server where I could barely play die to lag.